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Therapists for Men's Issues

Explore therapists focused on men's issues - relationships, identity, stress and trauma. Read about approaches, credentials and languages. Browse listings.

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About men's issues

On this page you will find clinicians who list men's issues among their specialties, addressing topics such as relationships, identity, stress and trauma. Browse the listings below to explore clinicians' approaches, credentials, languages and focus areas.

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What to compare in entries

Credentials A US state licence, or membership of a professional body such as BACP or NCPS. They are different kinds of thing; each profile shows what was supplied.
Focus Whether men's issues is listed as a main focus or among the wider list of areas. Entries show both.
Way of working The approaches named on the entry. Two people working with the same concern can describe very different sessions.
Time in practice Years in practice, as supplied. A fact to weigh, not a ranking.
Language The languages sessions can be held in, where that matters to you.
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Common questions

How were these entries chosen?

Everyone listed on this page has men's issues among the areas they told the platform they work with. They are not ranked, rated or endorsed by this directory, and the order is not a recommendation.

Do I need a referral to start?

No. You can contact a therapist through their entry directly. A GP referral is not required for independent online therapy.

What if the first therapist is not right?

Changing therapist is normal and expected, and can be done at any point. One session is a small sample of how someone works.

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Entries for men's issues

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Savithri (Savi) Jayaweera, NCPS

Ref 151058

Compassionate counsellor for complex life challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse Languages: English, Hindi, Sinhala

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Dallas Bentley, ACA

Ref 345691

Practical support for stress and relationships

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem Languages: English

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James French, BACP

Ref 203032

Practical support for anxiety and life transitions

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse Languages: English

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Tomasz Konieczny, BACP, NCPS

Ref 199992

Practical, compassionate online counselling

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Anger Languages: English, Polish

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Simon Nelson, BACP

Ref 281876

Calm, straightforward support for everyday challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Grief Languages: English

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Clement West, BACP

Ref 167549

Gentle, practical support for everyday challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem Languages: English

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David Potts, LCSW

Ref 23255

Practical, compassionate therapy for life changes

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Grief Languages: English

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Nicola Claydon, NCPS

Ref 183763

Calm, practical support for complex life issues

Works with: Relationship, Trauma and abuse, Intimacy-related issues Languages: English

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Richard Gordon-Smith , NCPS

Ref 120083

Straightforward, experienced counsellor for complex issues

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Parenting Languages: English

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Caroline Woodford, BACP

Ref 203033

Person-centred counselling with practical tools

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Eating Languages: English

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Wellington Cesar Assis Bueno, BACP

Ref 226813

Healing emotions, building clearer choices

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Trauma and abuse Languages: English, Portuguese

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Joanne Rothery, NCPS

Ref 179003

Compassionate counsellor for stress and trauma

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Trauma and abuse Languages: English

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Frank Centonze, LPC

Ref 297421

Direct, practical counseling for emotional recovery

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Trauma and abuse Languages: English

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Alexandra Matustik, LMFT

Ref 350108

Compassionate therapist for life transitions

Works with: Relationship, Trauma and abuse, Parenting Languages: English

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Faryal Choudry, LCSW

Ref 266995

Compassionate guidance for stress and relationships

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Relationship Languages: English

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Adrian Jackson, BACP

Ref 271038

Compassionate counsellor using practical, person-focused methods

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship Languages: English

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Michele Ellis, LCSW

Ref 355791

Compassionate support for overwhelming life challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Anger Languages: English

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Cecile Terrelonge, BACP

Ref 134582

Person-centred counsellor offering practical support

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Family Languages: English

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Michael Witham, LPC

Ref 56161

Practical, person-focused counseling for daily struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Anger Languages: English

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Claudia Santiago, LCSW

Ref 149793

Practical, collaborative therapy for everyday struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Grief Languages: English, Spanish

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Andrea Antrobus, BACP

Ref 121857

Warm counsellor blending practical therapy and listening

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem Languages: English

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Rose Sanford, LPC

Ref 150546

Practical support for stress and relationship struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family Languages: English

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Dr. Robert Nolan, LMHC

Ref 15781

Steady, practical counseling for real-life struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Bipolar Languages: English

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Paul Bryan, LPC

Ref 175985

Compassionate counselor guiding steady change

Works with: Family, Self esteem, Career Languages: English

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Denise Clarkson-James, BACP

Ref 189969

Calm, practical support for life stresses

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family Languages: English

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Carson Gerber, LPC

Ref 27651

Compassionate practical therapy for everyday struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Parenting Languages: English

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Gerry Byrne, BACP

Ref 224563

Practical, collaborative therapy for daily struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Relationship Languages: English

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Kelley Sullivan, LCSW

Ref 526

Compassionate, practical therapy for real life struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse Languages: English, Spanish

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Dr. Robert Hunt, LPC

Ref 187307

Experienced therapist for life changes and emotion work

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Relationship Languages: English

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Patrick Gribel, LMHC

Ref 348422

Therapist focused on depth and steady change

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Self esteem Languages: English, Portuguese

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Rines Shanthakumar, BACP

Ref 251123

Practical, relational counselling for life’s challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem Languages: English, Tamil

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Kim Smith, BACP

Ref 203026

Warm integrative BACP counsellor

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Family, Grief Languages: English

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Chris Rottcher, NCPS

Ref 167547

Compassionate integrative counsellor for life challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Trauma and abuse Languages: English, Afrikaans

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Carlisle Bergquist, LCMFT

Ref 194649

Gentle, experienced therapist focused on relationships

Works with: Relationship, Family, Intimacy-related issues Languages: English

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Danielle Turner, LCPC

Ref 43399

Practical, compassionate therapy for everyday challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Parenting Languages: English

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Chaz Canter, LPCC

Ref 194625

Straightforward, practical support for change

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship Languages: English

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Gilberto Bustamante-Ramirez, LCSW

Ref 344474

Compassionate, practical support for real-life struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Parenting Languages: English

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Chase Carter, LCSW

Ref 330670

Skilled LCSW focused on relationships and recovery

Works with: Addictions, Relationship, Trauma and abuse Languages: English

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Peter Bramhill, BACP

Ref 236747

Practical, compassionate counselling for life’s challenges

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Family, Trauma and abuse Languages: English

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Rosalind Oliver, BACP

Ref 232595

Gentle practical therapy for stress and relationships

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Trauma and abuse Languages: English, German

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Jatindar Bhogal, BACP

Ref 116956

Calm, experienced support for everyday struggles

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family Languages: English, Punjabi

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Kirstie Beckman, BACP

Ref 241734

Compassionate counselling focused on practical change

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Grief Languages: English

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Ayelet Wellard, NCPS

Ref 236001

Person-centred therapy with practical tools

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family Languages: English, Hebrew

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Brandi Garner, LPC

Ref 209377

Practical, sex-positive counseling for adults

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Grief, Intimacy-related issues Languages: English

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Abbe Goodman, LMFT

Ref 226386

Experienced therapist offering steady support

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Eating Languages: English

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Keith Brown, LCSW-R

Ref 74478

Collaborative, practical therapy for real life

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Depression Languages: English

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Angela Lindl, BACP

Ref 155213

Calm practical therapy for life changes

Works with: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family Languages: English

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More about men's issues

Understanding men's issues and how they can affect you

What the term covers

Men's issues is a broad term that refers to the patterns, pressures and life events many people who identify as men encounter. That can include struggles with emotional expression, expectations about masculinity, relationship challenges, fatherhood and caregiving, workplace stress, grief, sexuality, body image, substance use and the long-term effects of trauma. You may find that some concerns are tied to social norms about being stoic or self-reliant, while others stem from concrete life transitions such as divorce, career change, becoming a parent or recovering from an injury or illness.

How these concerns commonly show up

The way men's issues affect you will depend on your background, relationships and current circumstances. For some people the result is a pattern of avoiding emotional topics or withdrawing from close relationships. For others it shows as irritability, trouble sleeping, changes in appetite, an increase in risky behaviors, difficulties with intimacy or recurring conflicts at home or work. These experiences can impact day-to-day functioning, your sense of purpose and your connections with others. Recognizing that these patterns are common and addressable is often an important first step toward making changes.

Signs you might benefit from therapy for men's issues

When day-to-day coping becomes a struggle

You might consider talking with a therapist if you notice that emotions or behaviors are making it harder to do what you want in daily life. That can mean feeling stuck in anger, anxiety or numbness for weeks or months, or finding that you rely on alcohol, drugs or other distractions more than you used to. If you experience ongoing difficulty connecting with partners, family members or colleagues, or you find yourself repeating the same relationship patterns despite wanting something different, therapy can be a place to explore those dynamics.

When past experiences affect present choices

If a past trauma or painful event continues to shape how you respond to stress, or you notice recurring thoughts and memories that interfere with focus and wellbeing, therapy can help you learn new ways to respond. You may also seek support if you are making a big life transition - such as becoming a parent, ending a relationship, changing careers or confronting health concerns - and you want a space to sort through emotions and practical decisions. Choosing to seek help is a personal step, and many people find it useful long before a crisis develops.

What to expect in therapy sessions focused on men's issues

Early sessions and goal setting

In the first few meetings you and a therapist will typically discuss what brings you in, your history and what you hope to change. These conversations are collaborative - you and the clinician work together to identify priorities and to set goals that fit your life. You can expect an emphasis on building trust and establishing a working rhythm, because most progress depends on the relationship you develop with the clinician and on regular practice between sessions.

Ongoing work and pacing

Therapy can include a mix of reflective conversation, skills practice and behavioral experiments. Some sessions may focus on understanding patterns in relationships and emotions, while others teach practical strategies for managing stress, communicating more effectively or improving sleep and routines. The pace is shaped by what feels manageable to you. You are encouraged to bring your own priorities, whether that means exploring identity, learning emotion regulation techniques, repairing relationships or developing a plan for managing high-stress situations.

Common therapeutic approaches used for men's issues

How approaches differ in focus

Therapists draw on a range of approaches when working with men's issues, and many clinicians combine elements from different traditions to fit your needs. You may encounter therapists who list cognitive behavioral therapy - or CBT - among their approaches, which often emphasizes identifying unhelpful thinking patterns and building concrete coping strategies. Other clinicians may list psychodynamic approaches, which focus on understanding patterns that began in earlier relationships and how they play out now. Some therapists describe mindfulness-based or acceptance and commitment approaches that help you relate differently to difficult thoughts and feelings.

Trauma-informed and relational methods

When trauma is part of the story, you may notice therapists who list trauma-informed or somatic approaches among their methods. For people working on relationship or intimacy issues, some clinicians highlight couples or relational interventions, while others facilitate group work where you can practice new ways of relating in a guided setting. If certain modalities are important to you, look for therapists who list those approaches on their profiles - for example, therapists who list EMDR among their approaches or those who list dialectical behavior therapy - and ask how they integrate them into care.

How online therapy works for men's issues

Formats and practicalities

Online therapy typically takes place by video call, phone or text-based messaging, and some clinicians offer a mix of real-time sessions and asynchronous check-ins. You can choose a format that fits your schedule and comfort level. Before your first online session it helps to find a quiet, comfortable environment and reliable internet or phone service. Clear expectations about session length, fees and how to reach your clinician between sessions are useful to review ahead of time.

Benefits and limitations

Choosing online work can give you access to clinicians who list men's issues among their specialties beyond your immediate area, expand options for language or cultural match and reduce travel time. Online sessions can also be adapted to your needs - for instance, shorter check-ins or intensive work focused on a specific challenge. At the same time, there are practical constraints to be aware of: clinicians must follow licensure rules that may affect where they can provide services, and some interventions are better suited to in-person work. If you have acute safety concerns, establish a local emergency plan and know how to reach local crisis resources.

Tips for choosing the right therapist for men's issues

What to look for in profiles and descriptions

When you review listings, pay attention to a clinician's stated focus areas and the language they use to describe their work. Look for profiles that mention the specific issues you want to address - such as anger management, relationship concerns, fatherhood, sexuality or trauma recovery - and note the approaches they list. Many people find it helpful to consider a clinician's professional credentials, years of experience, the populations they work with and the languages they speak. Those factors can help you narrow options that are a practical and cultural fit.

Questions to ask and how to decide

You can reach out to a therapist to ask brief questions about their approach, typical session structure and how they have supported people with similar concerns. It is reasonable to ask how they conceptualize men's issues and what a short-term plan might look like. Consider logistical details such as session length, costs, insurance and whether they offer phone or video sessions. Pay attention to your sense of comfort during any initial exchange - the right fit often comes down to whether you feel heard and understood. If something does not feel right, it is acceptable to look for another clinician whose style better matches your needs. Ultimately, choosing a therapist is a personal decision, and taking time to find someone who aligns with your values and goals can make the work more effective and sustainable.

If you are in immediate danger or facing a crisis, contact local emergency services or a crisis line in your area. For non-urgent concerns, browsing clinician profiles below can help you identify professionals who list men's issues among their specialties and who match your preferences for approach, language and experience.

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